Marrige Box!
Most people get married believing a myth that marrige is a beautiful box full of all things they have longed for: companionship, itimacy, friendship etc. The truth is that marriage at start is an empty box. You must put something in it before you can take anything out. There is no love in marriage. Love is in people. And people put love in marriage. There is  no romance in marriage. You have to infuse it into tour marriage. A couple  must learn the art and form the habitt of giving, loving, serving, praising keeping the box full. If you take out more than you put in the box will be empty.